poetrygarden

  Onto a sober note.  In the past women or some have seen hysterectomy as an answer to one or two things and surgeons have been ready to perform the operation i am glad that now there are alternatives at least in some cases.

  At forty i had a hysterectomy unfortunately i had no choice, not cancer but having had a huge part of my womb come away with my last baby when they wanted to do the op and i refushed,i just wanted to get out of the place, i later was forced to have the hysterectomy. They told me it would not change anything, "0h but it did". So please if you are thinking of having a hysterectomy due to some thing that could be dealt with some other way, DO NOT for your own sake.  Once i felt like a sexuel human being enjoying all the normol things, all that vanished for me and  pain became a permanent part of my life. From there on i started to eat more," that too can be controlled you only get fat because you eat too much", they tell you, When you have completely lost your sex drive and you do not feel attractive anymore ,you eat ,its as simple as that.

  Even now years later if i pick some thing up or push some thing i am in a lot of pain. Maybe the op works for some, and there are varies methods, but mine was a surgical operation and a total hysterectomy,i had tried everything to avoid the op but i finished up having no choice. If you have a choice like i say please DO NOT go for this one it could change you and your life.